Sex, Porn and 2013

So – is it just me, or does anyone else feel like the availability of porn online has changed the sexual landscape?

Now – i’m no prude – love me a good session, not much i won’t try – like to kink it up at times. Buuuut – here’s the butt again – what’s with guys and the porn moves? The idea if you just pound hard enough, for long enough – that somehow that’s going to leave me writhing and ‘porn star moaning’ in pleasure? (ahhhh, ohhh, yeah, oh em gee, that’s it, yeah, yeah, i’m gonna cum)

What the fuck happened to hands, and fingers, and giving a girl time to get turned on, get worked up, get fucking wet? What happened to kissing, to pashing, to making out while hands roam and play and explore? And what’s with the anal facination. Sure, i’ll play that game with someone i’m seeing regularly – but new guys expecting you to offer up some ass – i don’t fucking think so. Since when did that become a regular menu item?

And the pleasure thing – perhaps it’s because many of the guys in the dating age pool i’m wadding in have grown up with unfettered access to porn – but do guys not understand that women in porn are rarely actually getting off? I’m starting to think these blokes actually think shoving a cock down my throat and then railing on me as hard as they can is going to get me anywhere near an orgasm? And when you guide them, slow them down – show them what turns you on- the ego gets bruised and they start to pout.

It’s a bit of a worry – generations of guys growing up actually having no real idea how to really turn a Woman on. Young Women not forward enough, or experienced enough to ask for anything better – which means you end up with a lot of guys inexperienced in giving pleasure – Women doing things they don’t really want because it’s expected of them. And generations of people growing up sexually unsatisfied.

And where’s the female ‘friendly’ porn? I’ll be conservative, and say 99% of porn is geared to men. Man grabs tits, rips off clothes, man gets cock sucked. Man pounds pussy. Man pounds ass. Man gets ass to mouth. Man calls her a whore, a slut blah blah blah… nuts on her face. Woman pants as if she’s sooo turned on. Clip ends. Sometimes there’s variety. Two chicks on demand. Sometimes more. Maybe a couple of guys swapping mid stream – but that’s about it. I would say maybe one in one thousands female orgasms on film are real.

So – there we go – a mid Saturday morning porn rant – that’s the way to start the weekend! : D